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Rachel

Rachel Williams has a rare condition called sacral agenesis also known as Caudal regression syndrome. It is a rare birth defect where the sacrum section of the spine is completely missing. “My spinal cord is damaged and there's lots of things going on that affects mostly the nerves waist down. So, bowel, bladder and legs. My continence was affected and I've had surgery to remove my bladder because that was causing the problems. They built me a new one out of a piece of my ilium and I now have to use a catheter through my stomach to empty my bladder, it's called a Mitrofanoff. I can't walk anymore and I rely on my wheelchair, but I'm very mobile, very active.”

Rachel still suffers from a lot of pain, has bowel issues and lots of inflammatory bowel syndrome type symptoms to control. To try to control her issues via diet she takes a probiotic when she can.

“Probiotics are quite expensive. I've tried adjusting my diet but sometimes when it's really bad, I can't eat as much as like. If my symptoms flare up, I have to adjust what I eat.”

Rachel lives with her two children and her husband and is finding it difficult to get by during the cost of living crisis. Her son has ADHD and her daughter suffers from social anxiety. Both are adapting to making their way in the world as teenagers. Rachel finds there is no help aimed at teenagers. Her son is still in school, and the cost of the uniforms are so expensive. They find they can get the shirts and trousers from regular shops but the school jumpers with a logo are only available at the one price.

“When the kids get to teenagers, it's quite difficult. We've got a kids' bank locally, which is amazing, they do try and get a lot of uniforms in, but they didn't do my son’s age. It's usually the younger kids' sizes that come through, you very rarely get an adult-size blazer or an adult-size PE top coming through, so you end up having to buy them. You can't access the help for teenagers. We have got local community groups where you can go and get fed and do things with your child. They're all aimed at younger kids. If your child's in high school, you just can't really access anything so it's difficult.”

With all the increases in the cost of living hitting her budget Rachel is struggling to get adaptions and aids that will help her dramatically. “Anything that I need for my disability is covered by me. I do get a wheelchair, but it's very standard. You don't get a lot of things that could help you. At the minute I'm having trouble with my back. So, the wheelchair services fitted a certain back on my chair. It's all they could offer, but if I went privately, I could buy a back for my wheelchair that actually supports me. Unfortunately, that cost would probably be about £1000. I struggle with sitting on the sofa, and there's a company that sells P-pods for disabled people to sit in, it's a bit like a big beanbag, but it's not as unstable, it's rigid. I would really benefit from one of them. Again, unfortunately, that’s over £1000.”

Adaptions like this would be a huge help to Rachel to improve her standard of life but are out of her reach more than ever due to their costs whilst trying to balance an already stretched budget. Eventually, she will need a power wheelchair but with that would come a new array of issues that will need funding such as moving home and getting a new car that would accommodate a larger wheelchair. A simple power pack now would help but at a cost of over £5000, it is beyond her reach as there is no funding available to help.

The increased cost of all the usual bills has also been a worry for the family, “paying the bills is difficult, things like the car insurance. If it had gone up, like they said it was going to, over a £500 increase, we would have struggled. I need the car. I can get the bus, but for my hospital appointments, I need a car. The buses have got a rule that only one wheelchair is on at a time, the other week, I waited for five because the other four had wheelchair users on them. If I had an appointment, I would have missed it. I can't rely on buses for appointments, especially in Liverpool because I'd have to take two buses.”

Rachel has received help in funding some things via grants and charities but it is not the answer to the crisis.

“Where I live the council runs a Household Support Fund. I've got some money from them to pay for Sam's new clothes. We have applied to Warrington Carers Trust because our cooker broke a few weeks ago and they have an equipment fund that you can apply for. I found out about the funds via my voluntary work. A friend there, who runs a support group for people who are struggling, called Thrive to Survive, had told me. They advise people about what's out there. If I hadn't known about that from word of mouth we wouldn’t know where to turn to, or how to get help. It didn't come up on Google.”

There is little spare money available to the family and Rachel is careful, cutting out things that are not essential. “The only way I socialise is through my volunteer work. I just don't have the money to go and socialise. Friends say to me, oh, ‘we'll have to go for a coffee.’ I say I've just been busy. I didn't want to tell them I couldn't really afford it. £5, that's a lot of money, especially when you've got other things it could be going towards. Going to the cinema or going for a meal or anything like that, we can't do it because there just isn't the money there to spare. If it wasn't for my volunteer work, I don't think I'd be I would be speaking to or doing things with people!”

This affects her mental health and that of her family who also find monetary restrictions are a barrier. “It has a big impact on mental health because it gets you down. Especially if you want to be able to see your friends and you can't, that affects you. Poverty isn't temporary. It is a permanent state because of disability. I can't just go and get a fantastic job, I can't change my income. There is no escape from that. I often think, is it going to ever change? We’ve had poverty for years, but for it to get worse like in this cost-of-living crisis, it isn't giving me hope for the future. So mental health-wise, it pulls me down, because you're so depressed about the situation and you can't do things to cheer yourself up as easily. It's all part of self-care, as well as mental health. You need time with your friends with a coffee and a chat!”


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Caudal regression syndrome

Caudal regression syndrome is a broad term for a rare complex disorder characterised by abnormal development of the lower (caudal) end of the spine. Abnormalities of the lower spine can cause a variety of additional complications including joint contractures, clubfeet and disruption or damage of the end of the spinal cord may occur, potentially causing urinary incontinence.

To learn more about caudal regression syndrome, click here.

Source: https://rarediseases.org